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	I didn't choose the fact that I was gay, but I did choose whether to live my life as a gay woman-that was the terrifying thing for me. Especially being a gay actress.   
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	I knew that I was gay, I knew it. I just couldn't see myself as a gay woman, even though that's where my heart was.   
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	I don't even like watching sex scenes in movies. I have a slight prudish side to me.   
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	I thought, I'm out in my life, that doesn't involve my public life.   
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	Everyone is their own kind of lesbian. To think there's a certain way to dress or present yourself in the world is just one more stereotype we have to fit into.   
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	When you have the paparazzi hiding in the bushes outside your home, the only thing you can control is how you respond publicly.   
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	In high school I had sex with girls quite a few times. They were straight women who I convinced to jump in the sack with me.   
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	I had a hell of a time convincing people I was gay - which was so annoying!   
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	Even if I'm hormonal and I feel like I've got a couple pounds of water weight, I will never starve myself, I will never, ever go on a diet.   
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	I never, ever, restrict food, and I will never go on a diet ever again.   
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	The most important thing for me was to never, ever, ever deny it. But I didn't really have the courage to talk about it. I was thinking, The people who need to know I'm gay know.   
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	I ran into Ellen at a photo shoot. She took my breath away. That had never happened to me in my life.   
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	I saw Ellen and my knees were weak. It was amazing. And it was very hard for me to get her out of my mind after that. Then when I saw her that night, we started talking, and that's that.   
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	People might find me attractive, but it's also my job to prove that I can be intelligent.   
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	I want young people to see me and think you can be feminine and smart and successful, all at the same time.   
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	You live with the fear people might find out. Then you actually have the courage to tell people and they go, I don't think you are gay. It's enough to drive you crazy.   
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	I was very sexual from a very young age.   
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	I really never stopped thinking about Ellen, because I just haven't felt that kind of energy with anyone in my life.   
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	Oh, I don't have any fans. Personally? I don't have any.   
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	Eating disorders are shrouded in secrecy, and there are so many things I felt very ashamed of that I could never talk about. Even though I have fully recovered, there were still things that I needed to go through again and work through.   
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	The first time I was paparazzi'd, I thought I was being investigated for an insurance claim.   
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	I have to be asked, I guess, but I love the idea of marriage. I think it's beautiful. I'm such a romantic, and I always have been.   
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	If I was 14 and knew some gay people, I wouldn't nearly have had the struggle I had. Our world is definitely changing.   
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	I want to exude strength and intelligence.   
