Alfie Kohn Quotes
Punishments and rewards are two sides of the same coin and that coin doesn't buy you much.
Quotes to Explore
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If my former self and my current self met for coffee, they'd get along OK, but they'd both probably walk out of the Starbucks shaking their heads and saying to themselves, “That guy is kinda delusional.”
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I think I have an ongoing conversation with God. I think throughout the day, I'm constantly asking myself questions about what I'm doing, why am I doing it.
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Love without knowledge is demonic.
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I hope no one who reads this book has been quite as miserable as Susan and Lucy were that night; but if you have been - if you've been up all night and cried till you have no more tears left in you - you will know that there comes in the end a sort of quietness. You feel as if nothing is ever going to happen again.
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Two minds with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.
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All concerns of men go wrong when they wish to cure evil with evil.
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And if my present deeds are foolish in thy sight, it may be that a foolish judge arraigns my folly.
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It is intelligent to have a plan, but neurotic to fall in love with it.
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It is in the very nature of a beginning to carry with itself a measure of complete arbitrariness. Not only is it not bound into a reliable chain of cause and effect, a chain in which each effect immediately turns into the cause for future developments, the beginning has, as it were, nothing whatever to hold on to; it is as though it came out of nowhere in either time or space.
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There is a remedy for everything but death; who, in spite of our teeth, will take us in his clutches.
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It is wrong to be sorry without ceasing.
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Boys get unfairly labeled as morally defective, hyperactive, undisciplined, or 'problem children,' when quite often the problem is not with the boys but with the families, extended families, or social environments, which do not understand their specific needs as human beings and as boys.
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Three Rules of Work: Out of clutter find simplicity. From discord find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.
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Ten masts make not the altitude Which thou hast perpendicularly fell. Thy life's a miracle.
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The inconvenience, the glaring lights, the long hours of waiting, and the repetition of every scene are all calculated to defeat anything more than a real mastery of love technique.
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There are two sides of the Velvet Rope. Those who want to be on the other side and those who are on the other side.
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Punishments and rewards are two sides of the same coin and that coin doesn't buy you much.
