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Every film is hard to fund.
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As I've gotten less righteous, less pedagogic, I have become more loving of the artificiality, the art form, the imitation of life in film.
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I think it's interesting: What is the generational effect of the experience of being a gay person in America? For my generation, it was very difficult.
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I came to N.Y.C. in 1988 and got very involved with Act Up. I also started making movies, including two very gay shorts, 'Vaudeville' and 'Lady.' It was the height of the AIDS epidemic, and New York City was both dying and very alive at the same time.
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I think there's a fear of difference in American cinema.
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Movies are romantic fantasies.
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I always think of my films within the context of where aesthetics meet economics. That's the nature of making art - not being naive about what is possible and getting what you need to tell the story you want to tell.
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I don't think I'd ever start making a film until I had both the intimacy with the subject and the distance to make it live in a certain way.
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You can be aware of the passing of time without being nostalgic.
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I could not - and I still cannot - see a sustainable career as a filmmaker in which I focus fully on our gay stories.
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It's easy to make a film, but it's hard to make a career of being a filmmaker.
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I've been hiding crucial events in my life since I was 13.
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I've made four films about the destructive nature of relationships, of secrets and lies, and I think I'm no longer interested in that subject - which is a wonderful relief.
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Being an artist is in part an act of rupture.
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Secrets make for good drama, and revealing the hidden truths and contradictions of life is, for me, one of the most exciting aspects of making movies.
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What I loved about 'Goodfellas' is that it's a film about bad behavior - but told with great energy and without judgment - but it doesn't actually shy away from the consequences of that behavior in the characters' lives, which I think is similar in 'Keep the Lights On.'
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I like a film that makes the audience feel like they are in the middle of life as it is moving, and in a way, they are catching up. They are thrown into things.
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I've been close to two or three couples, gay and straight, who have been together for 45 years.
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Everyone wants to belong, and everyone needs to belong in order to make a career on some level.
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I got into filmmaking in order to tell very personal stories, and in this day and age, the opportunity seems all the more precious.
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As a gay person, my life has been marginalized.
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Capturing intimacy is pretty much the only thing I'm interested in. That's what excites me and what I find beautiful in movies personally – that almost obscene sense that we shouldn't be this close to these people. I find that very inviting and meaningful as an audience member.
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By 1988, I was living in New York myself.
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Most simply but profoundly, I chose to live an honest life, which I think as a gay person is not a given.