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I've been a tomboy my whole life. But then you get older, you get married, you soften up.
Mary J. Blige
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This music business can suck all the love out of you, all the compassion for people - you can start to think you're better than them. But I want to continue to let people know that I'm no better and no worse, I'm just like you.
Mary J. Blige
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Sometimes I frown and I don't realise it.
Mary J. Blige
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So many people are like, 'I'm perfect.' I'm so imperfect; that's why I'm able to let everything out and let people see everything. 'Cause I'm just a mess like every other person that's a mess out there.
Mary J. Blige
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In the inner city, there's a mentality that the government owes you something. My breakthrough came when I stopped feeling sorry for myself and took responsibility for every part of my life. No more pity parties. I've gotta love me more than anybody else loves me.
Mary J. Blige
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I've never been a mean person.
Mary J. Blige
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As a kid, I was in love with Michael Jackson, and I just knew I was going to marry him someday.
Mary J. Blige
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I barely have time for my own children. To adopt more children and not have time for them, that would be poor parenting on my part.
Mary J. Blige
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I'm on my way to a place where I'd never dreamed I'd be, and that's perfection.
Mary J. Blige
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I hated myself for so many reasons, and I thought so many things were my fault that happened to me growing up.
Mary J. Blige
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Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free.
Mary J. Blige
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I didn't know how to show my self love, and I didn't want anyone else to hurt me. So my tough girl attitude was like, 'I'm not having it.'
Mary J. Blige
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It hurts when you have to smile and you don't want to smile, but the best thing to do is to smile.
Mary J. Blige
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If we didn't have understanding of our journey, we wouldn't be able to go on. We'd be stuck, like, 'Why me?'
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One day I realized that I wasn't getting anywhere by blaming other people for my circumstances. I finally understood: Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free.
Mary J. Blige
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I wouldn't adopt, but what I will do is give my time and go and try to be there for people.
Mary J. Blige
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I like to do interior design, I love to quilt, I love to see different colors together, and I love to match things up.
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For the first time in my life, I'm proud of myself.
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I wish I had an extra day with my mom sometimes. Or another hour in the day with my family, husband and children.
Mary J. Blige
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I believe that anything man himself can do for me, God can do for me in a greater way. I decided to pray and to seek God on my own. I just stayed in The Word. And it worked.
Mary J. Blige
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Life is full of trials and tribulations. It's dramatic when you don't treat people right when you're in the tribulations, but I know now how to get out of it. You have to make a decision to say 'No more', and then you know what to do when the trials happen.
Mary J. Blige
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I didn't never have to go to a therapist. I just always put it in a song and you heard me.
Mary J. Blige
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I believe there are certain things that God uses to get us out of a bad situation, and I believe music was one of the things he used for me.
Mary J. Blige
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When you hold on to anger and unforgiveness, you can't move forward.
Mary J. Blige
