Xaviera Hollander Quotes
I might not be a psychiatrist, but I am convinced that sex is not as important as we tend to make it. First there is that little feeling, that little red flame, called love. Blow on the flame and make it get bigger like a fire, don't blow it out like a candle.

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In Manhattan, when you're out of the front door, you're on, and you have to be ready to smile and speak to people.
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Through the years we had a bunch of large range fires that would start in the county. This was about the only one that actually came into town.
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I might not be a psychiatrist, but I am convinced that sex is not as important as we tend to make it. First there is that little feeling, that little red flame, called love. Blow on the flame and make it get bigger like a fire, don't blow it out like a candle.