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I come from a part of Nigeria where a lot of value is placed on implicit communication. The 'well brought up' child is the one who can pick up nonverbal cues from adults and interpret them correctly.
Ayobami Adebayo -
Never lend people money you can't afford to give them as a gift.
Ayobami Adebayo
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I wanted to write about extended family systems. You have people you can fall back on, and it's good. But what if you don't fit into what is expected of you?
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I am interested in the idea that people should be able to define their own happiness.
Ayobami Adebayo -
I think there is a dissonance between how much is expected of you as a young person, whether you are a man or a woman: you are supposed to go to university; you get a master's degree, maybe two, particularly if you come from the middle class.
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To be transported into another world is my very favourite part of reading.
Ayobami Adebayo -
I used to think that most published writers, the ones I admired, had a muse, or a special connection to the universe, to nature, or to aliens - something inaccessible to me that caused their prose to flow onto the page, already perfect.
Ayobami Adebayo -
I think a large part of being human centers on the state of being alone, and we try to mitigate that in so many ways.
Ayobami Adebayo
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I have always been very interested in the idea of loneliness and the presumption that romantic relationships are supposed to rid you of that.
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There is a strong view in Nigeria, as in many other cultures, that a marriage is not complete without children. I don’t agree; I’m wary of the idea that people have to have some particular functionality in order to be full members of society. I think it’s a very dangerous idea. Humans are humans and they are worthy of respect…
Ayobami Adebayo