Bessel van der Kolk Quotes
Trauma, whether it is the result of something done to you or something you yourself have done, almost always makes it difficult to engage in intimate relationships. After you have experienced something so unspeakable, how do you learn to trust yourself or anyone else again? Or, conversely, how can you surrender to an intimate relationship after you have been brutally violated?
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For the past few centuries, we have defined beauty as tall, slender figures, femininity and white skin.
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Life is like the ocean, it goes up and down.
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I think the NAACP isn't recognized enough for all of the work it does, especially in the field of law. They may have faded from view over the last couple of decades, but they are fighting the good fight.
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You know, acting is very fascinating. But being an actress is not, because you become so concentrated on yourself.
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I worry about children not having a sense of any direct connection to the past.
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We are expected to believe that anyone who objects to the Department of Homeland Security or the USA Patriot Act is a terrorist, and that the only way to preserve our freedom is to hand it over to the government for safekeeping.
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Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others.
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I'll post a video, and it might get 10,000 comments, and I'll scroll through and they'll all be lovely and nice - but then they'll be one saying, 'I hate you; I'm unsubscribing' and that's the one that sticks out and stays on your mind all day.
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It's an exciting life. I don't know where God is leading us. I just know that He opens doors and He closes the doors, and it is always the best for us.
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When I'm getting to know someone, I look for someone who has passions that I respect, like his career. Someone who loves what he does is really attractive.
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I don't have secrets in my life. Everything is out there.
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Worship is giving God the best that He has given you.
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I've changed my approach to people and to filming because of the new equipment, which is important.
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No Englishman is ever fairly beaten...
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If human nature felt no temptation to take a chance there might not be much investment merely as a result of cold calculation.
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Guys don't reverse-relate. Guys are like, 'You're hot. Shut up.' Girls reverse-relate. They think a lot about relationships.
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People will always be interested in relationships, infidelity and sex and everything connected to things in their own lives.
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Trauma, whether it is the result of something done to you or something you yourself have done, almost always makes it difficult to engage in intimate relationships. After you have experienced something so unspeakable, how do you learn to trust yourself or anyone else again? Or, conversely, how can you surrender to an intimate relationship after you have been brutally violated?
