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		Survivors have a difficult time expressing their feelings. They are more accustomed to minimizing their pain and hiding how they really feel, both from themselves and others. They often become frightened whenever they feel anything intensely, be it anger, pain, fear, or even love and joy. They fear their emotions will consume them or make them crazy.
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Beverly Engel 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	 
	
	
	
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		I've always been very open with my emotions. Actually, that's got me into a lot of trouble, too, in the past. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Victoria Pendleton 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		We secretly believe that if only we achieve some elusive goal - fitting into a pair of skinny jeans, or redoing our kitchen or getting that promotion - that it will make us happy. But the pain of our insecurity is hidden in all that racing around. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Dani Shapiro 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		As you get older, you see the world at a different angle, maybe more cynically, but I just bury my anger. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Zach Galifianakis 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Raising kids is part joy and part guerrilla warfare. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Ed Asner 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Coach Lue always amazed me. I'm like, 'How do you have this much joy coming out of life? You have money, but you don't drink; you don't smoke. All you do is hoop, and you live on a natural high.' But now I know. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				J. R. Smith 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Caretaking is different from care giving. Care giving has no second agendas or hidden motives. The care is given from love for the joy of giving without expectation, no strings attached. It cannot be manipulated or discouraged because love cannot be manipulated or discouraged. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Gary Zukav 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	 
		
	
	
	
	
		I would say probably my least favorite costume ever was in 'Van Helsing.' That was a huge pain because it had thigh-high boots with 30 buckles on them that had to be done up individually. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Kate Beckinsale 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I was a pretty angry kid, and I got into military history largely as a way to vent my own anger. As I got older it narrowed down to a more specific focus on individual violence. I'm just trying to understand where it came from. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Caleb Carr 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		As a young man, I was very introverted and quiet, but with a lot of intensity and feelings. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Om Puri 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		If our hearts are ready for anything, we will spontaneously reach out when others are hurting. Living in an ethical way can attune us to the pain and needs of others, but when our hearts are open and awake, we care instinctively. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Tara Brach 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Have you recently been through a challenge, disappointment, break up or disloyalty with somebody in your life? If so, it's important after you've been hurt, to take some time to think like a lion tamer about your pain, so you can tame the possibility of more negativity coming back to bite you again! 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Karen Salmansohn 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I would love do a guest spot on 'Castle' because Nathan Fillion is so dreamy, and he and I are friends. And I think we could have a lot of fun. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
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		I am still a very optimistic person. I continue to do work with joy. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Patti Smith 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Boron is carbon's neighbor on the periodic table, which means it can do a passable carbon impression and wriggle its way into the matrix of a diamond. But it has one fewer electron, so it can't quite form the same four perfect bonds. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Sam Kean 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		You wake from dreams of doom and--for a moment--you know: beyond all the noise and the gestures, the only real thing, love's calm unwavering flame in the half-light of an early dawn. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Dag Hammarskjold 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		It is the black poet who bridges the gap in tradition, who modifies tradition when experience demands it, who translates experience into meaning and meaning into belief. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Henry Louis Gates 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Survivors have a difficult time expressing their feelings. They are more accustomed to minimizing their pain and hiding how they really feel, both from themselves and others. They often become frightened whenever they feel anything intensely, be it anger, pain, fear, or even love and joy. They fear their emotions will consume them or make them crazy. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
				
				Beverly Engel