Brené Brown Quotes
-
Through my research, I found that vulnerability is the glue that holds relationships together. It's the magic sauce.
-
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
-
Vulnerability is about showing up and being seen. It's tough to do that when we're terrified about what people might see or think.
-
Vulnerability is the birthplace of connection and the path to the feeling of worthiness. If it doesn't feel vulnerable, the sharing is probably not constructive.
-
A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don't function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick.
-
One thing that I tell people all the time is, 'I'm not going to answer a call from you after nine o'clock at night or before nine o'clock in the morning unless it's an emergency.'
-
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
-
As a shame researcher, I know that the very best thing to do in the midst of a shame attack is totally counterintuitive: Practice courage and reach out!
-
When we're looking for compassion, we need someone who is deeply rooted, is able to bend and, most of all, embraces us for our strengths and struggles.
-
Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not about healthy achievement and growth; it's a shield.
-
Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.
-
Kids who have an understanding of how and why their feelings are what they are are much more likely to talk to us about what's happening, and they have better skills to work it out.
-
Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do 'faith.'
-
Ironically, parenting is a shame and judgment minefield precisely because most of us are wading through uncertainty and self-doubt when it comes to raising our children.
-
Vulnerability is not weakness. And that myth is profoundly dangerous.
-
Live-tweeting your bikini wax is not vulnerability. Nor is posting a blow-by-blow of your divorce . That's an attempt to hot-wire connection. But you can't cheat real connection. It's built up slowly. It's about trust and time.
-
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
-
I can encourage my daughter to love her body, but what really matters are the observations she makes about my relationship with my own body.
-
What's the greater risk? Letting go of what people think - or letting go of how I feel, what I believe, and who I am?
-
When the people we love stop paying attention, trust begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in.
-
Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.
-
We use work to numb out. We can't turn off our machines because we're afraid we're going to miss something.
-
We're hardwired for connection. There's no arguing with the bioscience. But we can want it so badly we're trying to hot-wire it.
-
Our need for certainty in an endeavor as uncertain as raising children makes explicit 'how-to-parent' strategies both seductive and dangerous.