Carolyn Heilbrun Quotes
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As long as women are isolated one from the other, not allowed to offer other women the most personal accounts of their lives, they will not be part of any narratives of their own…women will be staving off destiny and not inviting or inventing or controlling it.
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Quoting, like smoking, is a dirty habit to which I am devoted.
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Upon becoming fifty the one thing you can't afford is habit.
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As the years go on a sense of deep patience comes over one; one seems to know the virtue of ripeness, and the danger of rushing events.
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Is there any vanity greater than the vanity of those who believe themselves without it?
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People who are genuinely involved in life, not just living a routine they've contrived to protect them from disaster, always seem to have more demanded of them than they can easily take on.
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Ideas move fast when their time comes.
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A literary academic can no more pass a bookstore than an alcoholic can pass a bar.
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Power consists to a large extent in deciding what stories will be told.
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Everyone likes to talk shop, which is the most interesting talk in the world, in the beginning.
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That is the point of quotations. One can use another's words to be insulting.
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We women have lived too much with closure: "If he notices me, if I marry him, if I get into college, if I get this work accepted, if I get this job" -- there always seems to loom the possibility of something being over, settled, sweeping clear the way for contentment. This is the delusion of a passive life. When the hope for closure is abandoned, when there is an end to fantasy, adventure for women will begin.
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Maturity ... is letting things happen.
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What one remembers is, I think, a clue to what one wants to be.
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One hires lawyers as on hires plumbers, because one wants to keep one's hands off the beastly drains.
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We cannot guess the outcome of our actions... Which is why our actions must always be acceptable in themselves, and not as strategies.
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All good marriages are remarriages.
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Ironically, women who acquire power are more likely to be criticized for it than are the men who have always had it.
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Professors of literature collect books the way a ship collects barnacles, without seeming effort.
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We in middle age require adventure.
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Once you are thought selfish, not only are you forgiven a life designed mainly to suit yourself, which in anyone else would appear monstrous, but if an impulse to generosity should by chance overpower you, you will get five times the credit of some poor selfless soul who has been oozing kindness for years.
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Normal is absolutely my least favorite word.
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The journey is over. Love to all.
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Unfortunately, power is something that women abjure once they perceive the great difference between the lives possible to men and to women...