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The polished executive is ultimately the happy executive who can walk gracefully through life.
Letitia Baldrige
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I'm a businesswoman, and Ms. is an appropriate form of address.
Letitia Baldrige
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Tea time is a chance to slow down, pull back and appreciate our surroundings.
Letitia Baldrige
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What the bride should do is call guests who have young children and say: 'I'd love to have the kids at the wedding, but we won't have room. Would you get a baby sitter, and when we get back from our honeymoon, we'll have you guys over?'
Letitia Baldrige
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Make people have a smile when they finish your e-mail.
Letitia Baldrige
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Jeans of any sort should not be worn in nice restaurants. They pollute the landscape. They should also not be worn in the workplace if no other workers wear them. However, if your office is casual, go for it.
Letitia Baldrige
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If you really screw up, send roses.
Letitia Baldrige
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President and Mrs. Kennedy would walk into the East Room with their honored guests, preceded by the military color guard, who then posted their flags behind the receiving line. This ceremony never failed to move all of us, no matter how many times the staff witnessed it.
Letitia Baldrige
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A real thank you does not come by e-mail. They come in the mail in an envelope. And what comes out of an envelope is a beautiful thing to touch and to handle and to pass around for everyone to read.
Letitia Baldrige
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Doubleday is used to my talking about manners because I am, after all, known for that, and that's my persona.
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The First Lady has a lot of power. I hope Hillary Clinton realizes that.
Letitia Baldrige
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We have lost the art of conversation. People are shy and don't know how to approach other people, and they are missing opportunities for relationships. And no one's entertaining at home anymore. They're not having people over for dinner.
Letitia Baldrige
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Crashing could not be more inconsiderate to a host. It is a negative act because hosts likely have a particular plan for the event, an intention to move guests' attitudes in a certain direction.
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Business colleagues who have not seen each other for a long time but who have a good relationship can always shake hands warmly and grab each other's right upper arm or shoulder with their free left hand. Men and women executives should not kiss each other in public.
Letitia Baldrige
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We need to reach out - spend more time together.
Letitia Baldrige
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When writing a thank-you if you've had lunch with someone downtown, send an e-mail. If somebody is giving you a dinner party in his or her home and all the work that takes, that person deserves a written thank-you.
Letitia Baldrige
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Jeans should never be worn to someone's home if you are having dinner there.
Letitia Baldrige
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One cannot reject an entire nation because of the politics of its leader.
Letitia Baldrige
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It behooves everyone to move forward, think forward.
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I don't ever knock anybody; that's bad manners.
Letitia Baldrige
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If the flu situation in your town is serious, cancel a large long-awaited party you had scheduled, but promise the guests in an e-mail that you will reschedule the party as soon as possible.
Letitia Baldrige
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Arranging an official dinner in an embassy is a little like writing a script for a play. The prolog is the guest list, often the most difficult part of the whole creative operation.
Letitia Baldrige
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The '80s have not been a gracious decade, and people are seeking ways to be nice to each other.
Letitia Baldrige
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Backpacks are obtrusive. They're great for school kids and mountaineers, but a woman is supposed to look enticing and glamorous at night. They obscure one of a woman's most erogenous zones, the nape of her neck. I suppose they're good if you want to keep men away.
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