I don't want to stir up a can of worms.
Telling a butler how to make good tea; Warm the pot first, please, then put two heaping teaspoonfuls in the pot no bags in boiling water, and when it's in, stir it. And when it comes here, I will stir it again.
Only a rebuke that 'has something in it' will sting, will have the power to stir our feelings, not the other sort, as we know.
But games always cover something deep and intense, else there would be no excitement in them, no pleasure, no power to stir us.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Create and stir other people to create.