Bessel van der Kolk Quotes

I grew up thinking that my family was normal. But I always was terrified of my dad. I never felt cared for by him. He never hit me as hard as he did my siblings, but I have a pervasive sense of fear.

Bessel van der Kolk

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• My Family
• My Dad

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  Bessel van der Kolk
  • Fear
  • My Family
  • My Dad