Gail Sheehy Quotes
Eventually, all mentor-disciple relationships are meant to pull apart, usually sometime in the mid-30s. Those who hang on, eventually the mentor drops the disciple, and that's no fun.
 
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	Don't taunt the alligator until after you've crossed the creek.   
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	I think that my parents' divorce gave me a very strong sense of self-reliance and independence. I realised that I needed to make sure I could support myself because you don't know what's going to happen in the future.   
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	I started looking at fashion magazines, specifically 'British Vogue.' I was reading a lot about Cecil Beaton. Then I thought maybe I should start collecting.   
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	I think it's nice to do work that is vaguely compromising to your health because it means you really care about it.   
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	It angers me when sustainability gets used as a buzz word. For 90 percent of the world, sustainability is a matter of survival.   
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	For the past few centuries, we have defined beauty as tall, slender figures, femininity and white skin.   
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	Well, first of all, let me say that I might have made a tactical error in not going to a physician for 20 years. It was one of those phobias that really didn't pay off.   
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	I never give advice unless someone asks me for it. One thing I've learned, and possibly the only advice I have to give, is to not be that person giving out unsolicited advice based on your own personal experience.   
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	You have to believe that people don't want what you think they're going to like, you know? They want what you like. Once you start doing that, you actually start connecting with people.   
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	Growing up, I had a very happy childhood, with two parents who are still very much together.   
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	Nobody shoots at Santa Claus.   
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	If you go to a paintball subreddit, paintball companies can advertise to you.   
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	If I can go out there and be everywhere on the field, that's what I can control.   
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	'Twilight' fans are different. They're very civil with one another. It's a respect because they're all in this together and they all appreciate the same things.   
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	There are many things that matter much more than an editor's gender in shaping the direction of the leadership.   
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	It seems to me that one of the things that happened with a lot of literary fiction in the 1980s and 1990s was that it became very concerned with the academy and less with how people live their lives. We got to a point where the crime novel stepped into the breach. It was also a time when the crime novel stopped being so metropolitan.   
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	I can't inhabit my characters until I know what kind of work they do. This requires research because my jobs for the last decade have been author and professor, and I'd like to spare the world more author or professor novels.   
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	I really don't like confrontations. One of the reasons I'm retiring is that I'm tired of hurting people's feelings.   
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	On a daily basis there are some huge ones that are, sure, from time to time, but it is helping the reader sort through all this sort of gray stuff out there.   
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	The people at Dylan's Candy Bar, they have to have an inner child and a sense of fun... and love the colors and the textures.   
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	I don't think I've ever had a conversation with a comedian who stole except for when it's been in anger.   
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	I've always been acutely aware of differences and the way you are supposed to act if you want to be popular.   
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	How do I let go of Maplewood? It's like Shangri-la. It's so culturally diverse, and all my children are adopted - a transracial family. And we're not the freaks. Everybody flies their freak flag high in Maplewood!   
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	Eventually, all mentor-disciple relationships are meant to pull apart, usually sometime in the mid-30s. Those who hang on, eventually the mentor drops the disciple, and that's no fun.   
 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					 
					