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		It was too hard, too messy, too complicated. I sort of lived in a self-imposed exile for a good many years. I went away to college, lived my own life, chased my dreams, tried to face some demons. I guess I thought I could do all those things on my won. I thought that because I was gay, my family, well, they'd hate me or they wouldn't understand me or they'd send me away. So I just sent myself away. It was easier for me to pretend that I didn't belong to a family. I tried to pretend I didn't belong to anyone
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Benjamin Alire Saenz 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	 
	
	
	
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		The pitcher has got only a ball. I've got a bat. So the percentage in weapons is in my favor and I let the fellow with the ball do the fretting. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Hank Aaron 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Many are ready, when listening to the inventor, to belittle and deny his achievements so that he will no longer be heard in honourable places, but after some months or a year, they use the inventor's words in speech or writing or design. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Filippo Brunelleschi 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		If I was a condiment, I'm gonna go ahead and say I would be Sriracha, because I go well with other things. I'm too much for some people, and hipsters like me. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Ike Barinholtz 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I find television, and particularly live television, very romantic: the idea that there is this small group of people, way up high, in a skyscraper in the middle of Manhattan, beaming this signal out into the night. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Aaron Sorkin 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		There is no requirement that police stop a person who enters a police station and states that he wishes to confess a crime or a person who calls the police to offer a confession because volunteered statements of any kind are not barred by the 5th Amendment. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Earl Warren 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I think eating in itself is the act of great sensuality, so all you have to do is point the camera in the right direction. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Padma Lakshmi 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	 
		
		
	
	
	
	
		I never made lots of money at it, but I sold enough. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Jack Vance 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I really like the structure of my body. It moves well, it looks good, it photographs well, it understands gesture and nuance. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Carrie Mae Weems 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		Songwriting helps me sort out my personal problems. With acting, you're just a tool for someone's ideas. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
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		I like people like Andre Malraux, Edmund Wilson, Willa Cather, Robert Graves, Erik Erikson, and Francis Steegmuller. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Lee Radziwill 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		I wish I could separate trauma from politics, but as long as we continue to live in denial and treat only trauma while ignoring its origins, we are bound to fail. In today's world your ZIP code, even more than your genetic code, determines whether you will lead a safe and healthy life. People's income, family structure, housing, employment, and educational opportunities not only affect their risk of developing traumatic stress but also their access to effective help to address it. Poverty, unemployment, inferior schools, social isolation, widespread availability of guns, and substandard housing all are breeding grounds for trauma. Trauma breeds further trauma; hurt people hurt other people. 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Bessel van der Kolk 
			 
		 
	
	
  
	 
	
	
	
	
		It was too hard, too messy, too complicated. I sort of lived in a self-imposed exile for a good many years. I went away to college, lived my own life, chased my dreams, tried to face some demons. I guess I thought I could do all those things on my won. I thought that because I was gay, my family, well, they'd hate me or they wouldn't understand me or they'd send me away. So I just sent myself away. It was easier for me to pretend that I didn't belong to a family. I tried to pretend I didn't belong to anyone 
	
	 
	
		
			
				
					
						 
					 
				
				Benjamin Alire Saenz