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		I was working the Gulf of Mexico on oil rigs, flying helicopters. I'd lost my family to my years of failing as a songwriter. All I had were bills, child support, and grief. And I was about to get fired for not letting 24 hours go between the throttle and the bottle. It looked like I'd trashed my act. But there was something liberating about it.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Kris Kristofferson
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		There are those, however, that are not frightened of grief: dropping deep into the sorrow, they find therein a necessary elixir to the numbness. When they encounter one another, when they press their foreheads against the bark of a centuries-old tree...their eyes well with tears that fall easily to the ground. The soil needs this water. Grief is but a gate, and our tears a kind of key opening a place of wonder thats been locked away. Suddenly we notice a sustaining resonance between the drumming heart within our chest and the pulse rising from the ground
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				David Abram
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Neither my place, nor aught I heard of business,
Hath raised me from my bed; nor doth the general care
Take hold on me; for my particular grief
Is of so floodgate and o'erbearing nature
That it engluts and swallows other sorrows,
And it is still itself.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				William Shakespeare
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of the great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance. And inevitably, we will feel about us their arms, their sympathy and their understanding.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Helen Keller
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Grief is natural; the absence of all feeling is undesirable, but moderation in grief should be observed, as in the face of all good or evil.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Plutarch
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Tears from our sex are not always the results of grief; they are frequently no more than little sympathetic tributes which we pay to our fellow-beings, while the mind and the heart are steeled against the weakness which our eyes indicate.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Elizabeth Inchbald
			
		
	
	
  
	 
	
		
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		The media response to unusual weather is as ritualized and predictable as the stages of grief. First comes denial: "I can't believe there's so much snow." Then anger: "Why can't I drive my car, why are the trains not running?" Then blame: "Why haven't the local authorities sanded the roads, where are the snowplows, and how come the Canadians can deal with this and we can't?" This last stage goes on the longest and tends to trail off into a mumbled grumbling moan, enlivened by occasional ILLEGALS ATE MY SNOWPLOW headlines from the *Daily Mail....*
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Ben Aaronovitch
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		When I lost my father, I thought I learned about grief and transition. However, nobody tells you what it's like to lose your mother. They don't tell you that you're going to feel like an orphan at whatever age you are as an adult.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Sandra Cisneros
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Cry your grief to God. Howl to the heavens. Tear your shirt. Your hair. Your flesh. Gouge out your eyes. Carve out your heart. And what will you get from Him? Only silence. Indifference. But merely stand looking at the playbills, sighing because your name is not on them, and the devil himself appears at your elbow full of sympathy and suggestions. And that's why I did it....Because God loves us, but the devil takes an interest.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Jennifer Donnelly
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		As you say goodbye to lingering disappointments and unattended grief, you will discover that every person, situation and painful incident comes bearing gifts.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Debbie Ford
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		For men who had easily endured hardship, danger and difficult uncertainty, leisure and riches, though in some ways desirable, proved burdensome and a source of grief.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Sallust
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Some pain is simply the normal grief of human existence. That is pain that I try to make room for.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Marianne Williamson
			
		
	
	
  
	 
	
		
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		Memories of the last nine years have turned Ground Zero from a site of horror, to a reminder of grief, to an occasion for ludicrous artistic posturing - and now to something very close to parody.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				John Podhoretz
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Meanwhile, the trees were just as green as before; the birds sang and the sun shone as clearly now as ever. The familiar surroundings had not darkened because of her grief, nor sickened because of her pain. She might have seen that what had bowed her head so profoundly -the thought of the world's concern at her situation- was found on an illusion. She was not an existence, an experience, a passion, a structure of sensations, to anybody but herself.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Thomas Hardy
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Talking about your feeling with someone who is willing to listen can be enormously consoling, especially if that person has experienced a death similar to the one you are grieving.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Candy Lightner
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		It is sweet to mingle tears with tears; Griefs, where they wound in solitude, Wound more deeply.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Seneca the Younger
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Most people deal with grief in an awkward way, and that can be funny.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				John Cho
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Consolation indiscreetly pressed upon us, when we are suffering undue affliction, only serves to increase our pain, and to render our grief more poignant.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Jean-Jacques Rousseau
			
		
	
	
  
	 
	
		
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		Let the tears which fell, and the broken words which were exchanged in the long close embrace between the orphans, be sacred. A father, sister, and mother, were gained, and lost, in that one moment. Joy and grief were mingled in the cup; but there were no bitter tears: for even grief arose so softened, and clothed in such sweet and tender recollections, that it became a solemn pleasure, and lost all character of pain.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Charles Dickens
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Congratulations to all the members of the wonderful Treorchy Male Choir past and present. In moments of grief or joy, the sound of the Choir can move and uplift and restore spirits like no other sound. Masters of their craft, each and every singer plays a vital role in helping maintain such a fantastic musical tradition. Long may the Choir prosper and continue to the delight of audiences around the world.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				David Jason
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		The glory dies not, and the grief is past.
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Egerton Brydges
			
		
	
	
  
	 
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		Who over-refines his argument brings himself to grief...
	
	
	
		
			
				
					
						
					
				
				Petrarch